There were 4 good friends, used to go out often - lunch, dinner and supper. Used to chat online even in the same office and same meeting room. Then....one day without any reason or any explanation 3 of the friends started to ignore or avoid one of them. They started to go out lunch without her, start having online chat without inviting her. Then she felt so upset...and start thinking a lot of assumption...then from upset become disappointed then become angry. After one year, a friend asked her : why dont you talk to them? why you want to be angry alone? then she just answer : it is ok...since they dont want to talk to me I will chose to ignore as well.
The above is a real story and it happen to someone close to me, I also dont understand why 4 good friends can end up to be only 3 good friends, and I have the following questions:
Why people choose to avoid confrontation?
Why people choose to bring out/give away negative energy?
Why people choose to give up friendship like changing clothers?
Why people choose to be angry and not forget?
Why people chooose to be UNHAPPY to a human or to a subject?
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